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  • How We Got Our Church’s Mission Statement

    A few years back our church adopted this new mission statement:

    We exist to proclaim Jesus while loving and serving both God and people

    We really like our church’s mission statement, and God has used it to unite, fortify, and inspire our church family.

    You can find this church mission statement everywhere around our church. It is on most all of the walls. It is on our t-shirts. It is on our bulletins, flyers, and handouts. It is everywhere. To be a part of our church means that you are to be familiar with this common mission and to embrace it in your faith journey.

    But it hasn’t always been this way for FBCF. Our church began in 1916, and we do not know if they had a mission statement back then. For most of the years, there has not been a church mission statement for FBC Fairdale.

    So we decided to create one. Some years ago, we set out to form one. We began working together on what our church’s common mission is and should be.

    We began by taking several Wednesday night services to have an open discussion. Everyone was included. (Our Wednesday night service is a casual and open prayer meeting and Bible study, so it worked well as a time to have an open discussion.) We rolled out the big white dry-erase board and took notes.

    The first question I asked was – What are the things in the Bible that our most important to our church?

    People started raising their hands and saying these things:

    • do it all for God’s glory
    • preach the Gospel
    • all about Jesus
    • be loving
    • help people
    • make disciples

    As our white board began to fill up, we then realized that our mission statement is going to be too long. God’s word is a long book and there are lots of important things emphasized in it.

    So then the second question I asked was – What are some guidelines we should remember about what makes a good mission statement?

    People started raising their hands and saying these things:

    • keep it short
    • needs to simple
    • needs to be understandable
    • no big words
    • no “churchy” religious words
    • can’t be too long
    • something we can all memorize
    • needs to be biblical
    • needs to have Jesus in it

    It was at this point that many of us in the room became excited. And that many of us became aware of the godly excitement going on in the others present there too. We were a real church with a real passion serving a real purpose about our real Lord and Savior. God was doing something in us. This exercise and these 2 basic questions had served us really well. We were coming together in a like-minded faith to figure out what God was doing in and through us. It felt like a really valuable moment in the life of our church.

    So then the next thing we did was to take a break. We encouraged everyone to go home with all of these thoughts, think about it, pray about it, and then lets come back together the next week. And then we could begin trying to put some sort of a statement down on paper.

    The next Wednesday night, we gathered again, we got the white board back out, and we got back into our discussion. After a week to think it over, I asked ‘what are we missing?’

    People started to say things like this:

    • the Great Commission
    • It should be evangelistic
    • the Greatest Commandment
    • the next Greatest Commandment

    We started asking and exploring – How can we form a simple, yet memorable statement that includes all of that truth and embodies the heart for all of God’s purpose for His church. It was awesome to be in that meeting and to be processing all of this as it applies to our little church. We knew in that moment that God was working in us!

    What we did next was – we began just trying to write down some of this in a single statement. I would write it down on the board and people would give helpful feedback.

    People began saying likes this:

    • “I like that it says that, but it is making it too long. We need to shorten it.”
    • “I like that it talks about loving God, but I feel like we should also mention loving people.”
    • “Our church is a hard-working church, maybe it should also mention serving.”
    • “I like all of this about us and who we are, but it needs to send the message of outreach.”
    • “I love that we we are working through this, but we must remember that the big goal is for people to come to know Jesus.”

    And then after a lot of cutting and chopping down, we had some rough draft options written on our white board. The meeting ended. We were making good progress. We told everyone to go home again and continue to pray and think about it.

    At our next Wednesday night meeting, after a few more adjustments, we finally came to a united conclusion:

    We exist to proclaim Jesus while loving and serve both God and people.

    It was awesome. It had been a total group effort. Our church body had created this mission statement over the course of several weeks working together. It wasn’t one individual or one pastor who came up with this. There was a big sense of joy and delight and togetherness!

    That was over 10 years ago, and now it has become the center of our church culture. It is a clear mission that everyone can commit to. It is a unifying mission that all Christ-followers can embrace. It is a good mission that benefits our Fairdale community around us. It is the mission of FBC Fairdale!

    We want to love God in all that we do. We want to love people in all that we do. We want to serve God in all that we do. We want to serve people in all that we do. And as we are doing that, we want to tell people about the Savior Jesus Christ. We exist for that purpose!

  • Anxiety and Courage

    For a long while now, we have been wanting to have a discussion at our church about anxiety.

    This past Wednesday night we did. We titled it “Anxiety and Courage.” You can watch the entire talk here.

    Psalm 94:17-19 has been a massive help to me in my own personal struggle.

    “If the Lord had not been my help, my soul would have seen lived in the land of silence.

    When I thought ‘my foot slips’, your steadfast love O Lord held me up.

    When the cares of my heart are many, your consolations cheer my soul.”

    The message had three points to it:

    1. Many Cares (We care about many, many things.)
    2. Mighty Courage (God gives strength. We need mighty courage to trust He will strengthen us in our struggle.)
    3. Merciful Christ (There is a living God, a powerful Holy Spirit, and a resurrected, living Christ, and He will help you.)

    God can help you deal with this struggle. God desires for us to depend on him. Often times he is making us depend on him. Sadly, you are doing so many things in your life without even thinking of God. No prayer. No faith. Just doing it in your own strength. Thinking that you can handle it … until you can’t. Then you have anxiety. And then what do you do? Well, you were never meant to be independent from God. The faithful Christian life is lived fully dependent on God’s grace and mercy – on the merciful Christ. I pray this post and that talk help you in this area.

  • Give Some Thanks

    Thanksgiving Day is a holiday to give some thanks!

    It is not “Be Thankful” day. It is “Give Thanks” day.

    There is a difference between being thankful and giving thanks.

    Both are good! But, one is looking to let someone know that they are thankful.

    One is thankful internally, and the other is thankful externally. It lets the other person know. It gives thanks to the other.

    Each year about this time, I come back to the Luke 17 passage where Jesus heals the 10 lepers. There were 10 men suffering with leprosy. Ten men that cried out to Jesus for mercy. There were 10 men that Jesus miraculously healed as they went to show themselves to the priests.

    There was only one of those 10 that “when he saw that he was healed, turned back, praising God with a loud voice; and he fell on his face at Jesus’ feet, giving him thanks.” (Luke 17:15)

    I think it is reasonable to think that all ten were thankful. As they walked on their way and their skin was healed, I am sure they were happy and smiling, maybe even high-fiving each other that the painful, itchy, rashy, skin disease was gone. It is hard to imagine that they weren’t elated and thankful. But there is a difference between being thankful and giving thanks.

    Only one of the ten turned back and went to give thanks to the one that had healed them. Only one let the healer know that he was thankful for the mercy and the healing. After they had cried out for mercy, only one went back to let the merciful one know he was thankful for the mercy shown to him.

    Giving Thanks is special! Giving thanks is powerful.

    This Thanksgiving week and holiday season, lets be thankful! But lets also give some thanks to who we can.

  • Car rides are where the day unfolds

    A thousand hours on the turf,
    They say practice makes you perfect,
    Means a thousand hours of car rides,
    This dad will say it’s worth it!

    Car rides are where the day unfolds,
    20 minutes one-on-one,
    Not sure of what the future holds,
    One day the rides’ll be gone.

    Some times it’s listening to music,
    They controlling the aux cord
    Sometimes it’s cheer or homework
    And other times it’s about the Lord

    Sometimes it’s friendship & life advice
    Sometimes it’s really deep
    And sometimes I drop her off,
    Park the car, & then I pray and weep.

    A thousand hours of car rides,
    Of Giving your child a lift,
    Yes, Traffic and in a hurry,
    But parenting’s a gift.

    Car rides are where the day unfolds,
    Especially if you’re talking,
    And one-on-one with your child
    Sure does impact life’s walking.
  • Throw and Catch

    Throw and Catch

    Traffic slowed us down a bit,
    But we made it still on time,
    Dropped her off, and found a spot,
    Time to unfill my mind.

    Looked across the way just there,
    Sun glaring in my face,
    Saw the most restoring sight,
    Over in that big green space.

    A ball, 2 mitts , there to throw and catch
    And, man, that hit me hard,
    For I was taken back to me and mom in our front yard.

    It was the Mid 80s, baseball was life,
    Every day I wore a hat,
    I fell in love with playing ball, because my mother taught me that.

    She taught me how to throw and catch
    She taught me to play hard,
    A lot of life has been formed
    From toss in that front yard.

    I stopped right here to unfill my mind,
    Wasn’t planning on these tears,
    But a mother’s love for her son,
    Has impacted all these years.

    That father son across the way,
    Have no idea what they’re doing
    But God is in the business of
    Helping minds renewing.

    That little boy does not yet know
    Of what all he will get
    From a present father, and baseball pitches, popping in that mitt.

    For these days, I am not the boy,
    Those years have sadly past
    For now I am the father,
    Laboring to make it last.

    Sitting, reflecting , life is full,
    Good Memories are still intact,
    A parent throwing with the son,
    Sure does have a great impact!
  • Give Me Understanding

    Chances are you have heard someone say recently – “Make it make sense.”

    There seems to be a lot in life that doesn’t make much sense. Life, at times, is hard to figure out. No doubt about it, life is hard. We regularly feel that we need help with understanding.

    Well, I want to share a short, little prayer with you to help you progress in life.

    “Lord, give me understanding.”

    Psalm 119 is the longest Psalm in the Bible. It has 176 verses. In Psalm 119 we find this brief prayer “Give me understanding.”

    In fact, remarkably, this expression is mentioned five different times in Psalm 119.

    Psalm 119:34 “Give me understanding, that I may keep your law and observe it with my whole heart.”

    Psalm 119:73 “Your hands have made me and fashioned me; give me understanding that I may learn your commandments.”

    Psalm 119:125 “I am your servant; give me understanding, that I may know your testimonies.”

    Psalm 119:144 “Your testimonies are righteous forever; give me understanding that I may live.”

    Psalm 119:169 “Let my cry come before you, O Lord; give me understanding according to your word.”

    God is a good God and a Father in heaven to all who trust in the Lord Jesus Christ. God longs to lead us and bless our lives. May we believe that He will give us understanding and that He will make our lives make sense.

    May God give us understanding to know Him and His ways!

    May this simple prayer become a blessing to you and your daily life as you begin looking to God for understanding. May we pray often “Lord, give me understanding.”

  • 4 Characteristics of the Good Shepherd

    One of my most favorite passages in the entire Bible is John 10. Of the seven “I Am” statements in John’s Gospel, the “I am the good shepherd” statement is the most meaningful to me. Yesterday I preached this passage at FBC Fairdale, and you can watch/listen to the whole sermon here.

    Jesus declares “I am the good shepherd.” He actually says it twice (10:11, 10:14).

    The people of God had/have a bad history of having unfaithful shepherds (leaders). The Old Testament is full of messages from God against those untrustworthy shepherds. But we also have God promising that He will come and be a good and faithful shepherd to his people. That is fulfilled in Jesus Christ! He is the good shepherd of God’s people, the sheep.

    From the John 10 passage, here are 4 Characteristics of the Good Shepherd:

    1. HE CARES FOR THE SHEEP
      Jesus cares for his people. He contrasts his care with the lack of care that is shown by the “hired-hand” shepherds. They leave. They flee. They don’t really care for the sheep. Jesus is committed to his people forever.
    2. HE KNOWS THE SHEEP
      Jesus knows each and everyone of his people. Here he says that he knows them and they know him. He knows them by name. He calls them by name. His sheep recognize his voice and follow him. There is a real and close and personal relationship between Jesus and His people.
    3. HE IS IN CLOSE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE FATHER
      This is a fascinating aspect of the passage. While the majority of the chapter is the shepherd/sheep metaphor, there are several mentions of Jesus and His Father. Verses 15, 17, and 19 all mention Christ and His relationship with the Father. This is incredibly helpful. The listener/reader, as well as the believer, is to understand the Shepherd/Sheep analogy in light of a personal relationship with God the Father which is only possible and available due to the obedience and sacrifice of the Son, Jesus Christ. The Good Shepherd is the Lord and Savior, and He brings us in to a loving relationship with God.
    4. HE DIED FOR THE SHEEP
      In a rather emphatic and redundant way, Jesus says 5 times that the shepherd dies for the sheep. In verses 11, 15, 17, and twice in 18, he says the good shepherd lays down his life for the sheep. It is remarkable! It is especially remarkable when you consider that very rarely does an actual shepherd have to give his life for his flock of sheep. But Jesus is not teaching us about agriculture here. He is teaching us about life. People can know God, and people can be lead by God. Jesus is the Shepherd and the Savior.

    When it comes time for you to deal with your sins and seek forgiveness (hopefully now and today, do not delay), you need a savior.

    When it comes time for you to die (hopefully not today, but it could be any day), you need a savior.

    When it comes time for you to live, I mean truly live, you need a shepherd – a leader.

    Jesus Christ is both – the Shepherd Savior! Trust Him today!

  • Happy Birthday, Dad!

    While I wish I could be with him today, I wanted to re-post some of the things I have written about him in the past. What an honor it is to be his son!

    I hope you will please take the time to read each of these.

  • He is a Shield

    Over these summer weeks, I have been spending some time thinking about God being a shield. After initial reflection, it really is remarkable to think that God can be shielding you.

    A shield is a defensive weapon. It is a piece of the soldier’s armor. It is used to block/guard/protect anything that is coming at you. God is a shield.

    In the Bible, the word “shield” is used over 70 times. That is quite a bit!

    Proverbs 2:7 says “he is a shield to those who walk in integrity.” Here in this book of wisdom we are taught that God protects those who are walking in His ways.

    Psalm 3:3 declares “but you, O Lord, are a shield about me.” Here we see the writer of the Psalm crying out to God in hope declaring that God is His shield. The Psalmist finds strength in knowing that God protects him.

    In Genesis 15:1, we have God telling Abram that He is his shield. Amazing! “Fear not, Abram, I am your shield.” For all the benefit to being taught that God is a shield, and for all the benefit we find from declaring to God that He is our shield, there is an extra level of blessing and confidence from hearing God say to His child the comfort that He is a shield to them. Just absolutely remarkable!

    Genesis 15:1 is the very first time in the whole Bible that we find the word “shield.”

    Again, “shield” is found over 70 times in the entire Bible. Do you know how many of those are in the New Testament?

    Only one!

    Only one time in the whole 27 books of the New Testament is the word “shield” used. This is fascinating to both the child of God and the student of the Word of God. It reminds us that there is Old Testament language that does not necessarily carry over to the New Testament. “Shield” is one of those examples. The believer loves the OT passages that speak of God being a shield. While that truth is certainly still true in the NT, now, and always, we just do not see that language used in the NT much.

    The only instance of “shield” in the New Testament comes from Ephesians 6:16 and it says “In all circumstances take up the SHIELD OF FAITH, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one.”

    Many recognize right away that this is the passage on the armor of God. Ephesians 6:10-18 is one of the most instructive passages to believers on how to live by faith in the world. Many Christians have these verses memorized.

    Here the New Testament teaches what the Old Testament teaches – that God is a protecting God to His children. He is a shield to them. But it says it in a fortifying way. The Christian has a “shield of faith.” In other words, believing God is what protects us!

    The evil one attacks. He has schemes. Life is hard. We wrestle with opposition. We are called to be strong and to stand firm. We need protection. We need a shield, and we have one – God. We are to believe Him!

    No matter what, if one will believe Christ, they will be protected by God the shield! What a comfort!

  • A Peaceful Proactive Summer

    A Peaceful Proactive Summer

    Memorial Day weekend marks the unofficial kickoff to summer. After we got through with the scary storms, we now have some beautiful weather. This is ideal weather to enjoy the beginning of Summer.

    There are various ways to approach the hot and sunny summer months of June and July. Some people like to do less, enjoy the down time, and embrace the slower pace. Some people like to fill up the calendar with fun and adventurous activities that they only have time for during the summer. However you approach the summer, we all know that longer days, heat and humidity await us. 

    So how will you spend it? Psalm 90 reminds us “Lord, teach us to number our days” And so even in the summer vacation months we want to “serve the Lord with gladness” (Psalm 100) and “make the best use of the time.” (Ephesians 5)

    I do not want to tell you what to do this summer, but I do want to tell you lovingly to have a peaceful proactive summer. 

    Here are 3 encouragements for you and your household as you advance into June and July:

    1. NO DISTRACTIONS – FOCUS
      Be proactive in determining now what you want the summer to be like. Of course, we are open and flexible and spontaneous, but there are some parts of our faith that require us being proactive. The summer can be such a time of strengthening and inspiration if we allow it.
      With the extra time, there is ample opportunity to read the Word and to spend time in prayer. Distractions will try to keep you from that. Focus-in now on how you want to grow in your faith this summer.
    2. NO DIVISIONS – UNITE
      Divisions are all around us. Things that cause divisions are all around us. Weaknesses in ourselves that cause divisions will be visible this summer. We need to be proactive to be peacemakers and those who strive for unity. Distance and isolation are sneaky in creating divide amongst believers. We must be focused on staying connected and doing our part. May we walk by faith to being a key piece to us being a united church.
    3. NO DISCOURAGEMENTS – ENCOURAGE
      Of course, it is wishful thinking that the long summer would not have any discouragements. Bad days and moments are bound to come. But the hope here is that we would be proactive to minimize discouragements in the faith and in the church. One way to do this is to build people up. We all need encouragement. We all love being encouraged. Life-giving interaction with a fellow brother or sister in the faith is truly so good! May we counter discouragement with encouragement.

    I am hoping and aiming for me and my family to have a peaceful proactive summer. We have a calendar filled with events, but we also have lots of slow and easy days. 

    We are looking to Jesus and aiming for no distractions, no divisions, and no discouragements. And we are believing that we need to focus, unite, and encourage! 

    May God give us all a peaceful proactive summer!

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