Month: March 2010

  • what a moment!

    We just returned from spending a few days in Florida for a wedding.  Monday was one of the best days of my life. Valeria and I took our two boys and introduced to them to one of God’s greatest pieces of creation…the ocean.

    The boys absolutely loved it. It thrilled my soul so incredibly much to see them enjoying it so much. Eli loved the sand and the shells. JJ loved the water and the waves.  They could not get enough of it.

    JJ walked out into the water.  A wave would hit him and he would fall over crying. I would pick him up and he would say “mas daddy, mas”. Then we would both be laughing so hard while JJ said “cold water, cold water”. It was very cold. So cold Eli wanted nothing to do with it.

    It blessed me so much to see JJ so jubilant, so happy, so excited. Literally the world could not contain the overflow of joy and delight that was flowing out of him. I cannot explain what that moment meant to me as a father.

    I was glad to teach JJ that we do not worship the creation. We only enjoy the creation that God has made. We truly worship the Creator!

  • you’ve got a friend in me

    While out of town for a wedding and a few days of vacation, I have had a wonderful time bonding with my two sons.  JJ and Eli are so much fun and these days have been a blast. JJ loves the characters from the movie ‘Toy Story’.  The movie begins with this great song ‘You’ve got a friend in me.’  JJ sings this song to his brother Eli.  Here are the lyrics. We need more Christians with a commitment and devotion to friendship as this song describes.

    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me
    When the road looks rough ahead
    And you’re miles and miles
    From your nice warm bed
    Just remember what your old pal said
    Boy, you’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got troubles, well I’ve got ’em too
    There isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for you
    We stick together and we see it through
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me

    Some other folks might be
    A little bit smarter than I am
    Bigger and stronger too
    Maybe
    But none of them will ever love you the way I do
    It’s me and you
    And as the years go by
    Boys, our friendship will never die
    You’re gonna see
    It’s our destiny
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me
    You’ve got a friend in me

  • hate it with a passion

    At FBCF, we are placing great emphasis on simply being followers of Jesus. As Jesus goes, so do we… we hope.   One of the ways we do this is by remembering a simple illustration that there are 2 sides to every coin.  There may be two different images on each side of the coin but it is still the same coin.  And people are able to identify the coin regardless of what side they see.

    In our following Jesus, we want to be the same way. The 2 sides of our faith are: loving Jesus & hating sin. 

    To hate sin means to focus and plan and structure your entire life around hating sin. To hate sin with a passion is one facet of loving and following Jesus.

    I know a young girl who recently died from partying. She was a good girl and the events at the party went wrong and she died tragically. It is awful. Her friends now are working very hard to see that things change and kids do not live like this anymore. They hate the partying and they hate what happened as a result of the partying.
    In the same way, Jesus died for our sins. He died because of our sins. If you love Jesus, you will hate sin. If you love Jesus, you will hate the sin and what happened & happens as a result of the sin.

    My desire is for there to be a people who love Jesus and that is known partly because of their hatred for sin.  It is one thing to say you love Jesus. And it is another to focus & plan & structure your life around hating sin because of the impact that Jesus’ death for sin has had in your life.  These two sides of the same coin are seen throughout all of Scripture. Here is one verse that emphasizes it. Die to sin & live righteousness!

    1 Peter 2:24 “He himself bore our sins in his body on the tree, that we might die to sin and live to righteousness.”

  • thinking of heaven

    Contemplating heaven and the exclusivity of Christ!

    “We will be surprised when we get to heaven when we see who is there and who is not there. But please, I beg you, do not be surprised by this– everyone in heaven will only be there by faith in the death & resurrection of Jesus.”

  • transformers

    My oldest boy, JJ, has recently fallen in love with his transformer toy.  He recieved it as a gift a while ago, but it was honestly too complicated for me to figure out.  Well, last night a friend of ours “transformed” it for him from a car into a flying-robot-warrior-type-a-thing. Now JJ absolutely loves it. He flies it around like its Buzz Lightyear. He even folded the transformer’s hands into praying position during our family worship time. And then even slept with the transformer.

    I am glad to see my son enjoying the gifts of life.

    I got to thinking about transformers. And quickly the Scriptures flooded my mind. Us, followers of Jesus, are to be transformers ourselves. We are to be “transformed by the renewal of our minds.” (Rom. 12:1-2)

    Transformed from darkness to light; from death to life; from mourning to dancing; from not a people to God’s people; from children of wrath to rich in mercy; from haters of God to loved by God; from enemies of the cross to followers of Jesus.

    I pray for the day when JJ would not only be excited about a toy that transforms from a car into a robot, but for the day when JJ will love and worship and serve King Jesus because of the transforming work that God has done in His life.

  • march madness

    The best three weeks of the year have arrived!

    The 64 team tournament is set, and nearly everyone I know cannot wait for the games to begin at Noon on Thursday.

    While it is called March Madness, I think it would be good for us followers of Christ to remember a few things as the most exciting time comes upon us.

    1.     The last fruit listed in that great listing of the fruit of the spirit in Galatians 5:22-23 is self-control.  This is important to remember during March Madness. On Thursday there will be 16 basketball games on TV. On Friday there will be 16 basketball games on TV. That is a minumum of 12 hours of live basketball on TV each day.  On Saturday and Sunday, there will be 8 games on each day and that too will be a minimum of 12 hours of live bball. Now, be careful with this. Use some self-control. If you watch, that much basketball over the course of those 4 days there is a good chance you will be neglecting something else…  Perhaps your job, your wife, your kids, the dishes, the mail, your church, etc. Please be careful to enjoy all the bball you want while remaining controlled by the Spirit.

    2.     The second fruit listed is joy. I know so many people (myself included) whose personality rises and falls on whether or not Roy Williams calls a timeout to stop a run or whether the Big East referees are blowing the game. This should not be the case. Our joy is from the Lord. Please in these coming days do not allow the bball to effect you and your joy. Whether your team gets upset early or makes the Final Four (or in my case sneaks into the NIT), stay joyful. In fact, if your joy is dependent upon your team or if your team can cause you to be mean, hateful, angry, or sinful then you seriously have a bigger problem. Think about that.

    3.     Reading the Bible is a must for Christians. As Jesus quoted, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” Let me repeat. Man does not live by bread alone… or basketball alone.  You live by God’s Word. Please, please, please do not let Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday to pass without getting in your Bible. You must. If you go four days without the Word, you are going to be weak and hungry and more prone to act wrongly in response to the tourney. This may mean you have to read the Word in the mornings because each day ball begins at noon and goes well into the night.  But I have warned you, so make the steps now to be sure that Bball doesn’t become your god over the next four days.

    4.     1 Corinthians 10:31 says “whatever you do, do it all the glory of God.” As you enjoy March Madness, love Jesus through it all. Don’t let these 3 weeks pass and then regret how into it you were. Keep your priorities straight from the first tip on Thursdayall the way until the Final Four in early April. And let God be glorified because you enjoy the gift of March Madness that he has given us.

    Go Tarheels! (in the NIT).

  • new favorite hymn

    Thanks to our great worship pastor, Drew Krutza, I have a new favorite hymn. God often uses creation to cause me to love Him more. Speaking of God’s world, the Bible says:
    “The heavens declare the glory of God, and the sky above proclaims his handiwork. Day to day pours out speech, and night to night reveals knowledge. There is no speech, nor are there words, whose voice is not heard.” Psalm 19:1-3

    Its #43 in our hymnal. It is “This Is My Father’s World.”

    This is my Father’s world, And to my listening ears,
    All nature sings, and round me rings
    The music of the spheres.
    This is my Father’s world, I rest me in the thought
    Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas;
    His hand the wonders wrought.

    This is my Father’s world, The birds their carols raise;
    The morning light, the lily white
    Declare their makers praise.
    This is my Father’s world, He shines in all thats fair;
    In the rustling grass, I hear him pass
    He speaks to me everywhere.

    This is my Father’s world, O let me ne’er forget
    That though the wrong seems oft so strong,
    God is the ruler yet.
    This is my Father’s world, The battle is not done
    Jesus who died shall be satisfied
    And earth and heaven be one.

    It was written by Maltbie D. Babcock (1858-1901).

    I did some research and found that there are more original verses to the song than what we have in our hymnal. Here they are 

    This is my Father’s world, and to my listening ears
    All nature sings, and round me rings the music of the spheres.
    This is my Father’s world: I rest me in the thought
    Of rocks and trees, of skies and seas;
    His hand the wonders wrought.

    This is my Father’s world, the birds their carols raise,
    The morning light, the lily white, declare their Maker’s praise.
    This is my Father’s world: He shines in all that’s fair;
    In the rustling grass I hear Him pass;
    He speaks to me everywhere.

    This is my Father’s world. O let me ne’er forget
    That though the wrong seems oft so strong, God is the ruler yet.
    This is my Father’s world: the battle is not done:
    Jesus Who died shall be satisfied,
    And earth and Heav’n be one.

    This is my Father’s world, dreaming, I see His face.
    I ope my eyes, and in glad surprise cry, “The Lord is in this place.”
    This is my Father’s world, from the shining courts above,
    The Beloved One, His Only Son,
    Came—a pledge of deathless love.

    This is my Father’s world, should my heart be ever sad?
    The lord is King—let the heavens ring. God reigns—let the earth be glad.
    This is my Father’s world. Now closer to Heaven bound,
    For dear to God is the earth Christ trod.
    No place but is holy ground.

    This is my Father’s world. I walk a desert lone.
    In a bush ablaze to my wondering gaze God makes His glory known.
    This is my Father’s world, a wanderer I may roam
    Whate’er my lot, it matters not,
    My heart is still at home.

  • balancing like-ability

    Many Christians live in the continual struggle of desiring to be liked by others yet trying to not be a people pleaser.

    Church people often say things like

    “I dont care if anyone likes me.”  or “I dont care what people think about me.”

    Yet they usually do not totally mean that. And most people really live like people’s opinions of them do really matter and influence them.

    I have been thinking a lot lately about the balance of these 2 opinions.

    Jesus says that we are to be loving and serving in a self-less way. Most of the time, if you are humble and loving and serving toward someone they are going to like you. That is why when the Bible lists the qualifications of elders it says “they are to be well thought of by outsiders.” Because they are to love and serve and lead in a selfless way.

    Jesus also said that the world hated him so do not be surprised when it hates you. But He certainly never did anything wrong or treated anyone wrongly. So the only reason they hated him was because of His message.  Christians today should work toward that end. Live in such a way that people have nothing evil to say about you. In fact, the only thing they can say against you is that they disagree with your message. If people don’t like you, perhaps it has a lot more to do with you not being like Christ then it does solely your message.

    To say that you dont care about what they think of you seems to say you don’t understand Christs calling on your life.

    Here is where I’m getting some of this from.

    Proverbs 3:3-4 (notice v.4 especially) “Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you; bind them around your neck; write them on the tablet of your heart. So you will find favor and good success in the sight of God and man.”

    Prov. 3:4 says that we will find favor and good success in man’s sight. Check Luke 2:52, it says Jesus did that too.

    I’m praying God will continue to give us the proper balance and understanding of what it means to live in such a way that God is pleased with us and people like us. I think it has lots to do with living like Jesus. Dead to self, loving and serving.

  • like arrows in my hand

    God has given me 2 sons – Joshua & Eli.

    Sometimes late at night once they are sound asleep, I like to slip into their rooms quietly and just look at them. In that moment, I become overwhelmed with deep, deep inexpressible love for them. I cannot speak how heavy and real my love for my sons is. I love them.

    Psalm 127 says that children “are like arrows in the hand of a warrior” because “he will not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.”

    Well, I’m not sure how I may be a warrior. And my boys are 26 months and 10 months which means they are not grown yet. But I desire for God to continue to give me a Christ honoring love for them. So that they may grow up to fear the Lord and follow Jesus. In 2 words, I have goals for my boys: fear and follow. 

    If they fear & follow, they will be like arrows in my hand.

    God, please be gracious and lead them to fear and follow you!

  • Give me Jesus

    32 year old Aaron Berry passed away this past Friday. We had his funeral service today. His family chose a wonderful song to be played at the close of the service.

    Here are the lyrics to Fernando Ortega’s song “Give me Jesus.”

    In the morning, when I rise
    In the morning, when I rise
    In the morning, when I rise, give me Jesus

    Give me Jesus,
    Give me Jesus,
    You can have all this world,
    But give me Jesus

    When I am alone
    When I am alone
    When I am alone, give me Jesus

    Give me Jesus,
    Give me Jesus,
    You can have all this world,
    But give me Jesus

    When I come to die
    When I come to die
    When I come to die, give me Jesus

    Give me Jesus,
    Give me Jesus,
    You can have all this world,
    You can have all this world,
    You can have all this world,
    But give me Jesus

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